A lot of us have been in a position where the people we love and care for, have turned on us and turned us into villains in their lives. A client of mine, did her homework sincerely as a result, was very hurt. The homework was to ask her friends and family to give feedback about her after therapy. Although everyone had congratulated her for being in therapy, they also ended up making mean comments about how selfish she had recently become, and how she had become self obsessed